Well, it finally happened. Another kid went home and talked about my kid's lunches, Hattie's to be exact. You think this day would have put a big smile on my face and made me think, "Wow, someone noticed the healthiness and love I pour into my kid's lunches." Here was the conversation I had with Hattie's friend's mother.
I was dropping Hattie off at a birthday party. The mom asked if I would like to eat anything. I told her no because I didn't feel very well. I went on to tell her that I feel yucky most weekends and think it is because we tend to cheat with our meals when we eat out, and we had done so the night before OR I felt yucky because I get carsick from reading my phone while Eric drives on the weekends. This was her next sentence, "Yeah, J- said that she feels so sorry for Hattie because the food she brings for lunch is disgusting, and she thinks Hattie is starving to death." She went on to tell me that Hattie wouldn't be able to eat any of the food at the party and she would get in trouble for eating any candy. I didn't smile. I cracked up laughing. I know Hattie's lunches look very different to the kids around her, but Hattie mostly likes the food. It is out of the norm compared to the other lunches in her class. I've talked to my girls about this and told them that we eat differently than some people. It doesn't make any of us wrong or right, it is just different choices. I also assured the lady that I don't punish my kids for eating something else. In fact I tell them that we eat whatever other people serve us, but at home we can choose our own food. We eat gluten and sugary stuff at church every Wednesday night. We also don't scrutinize over what is eaten at our church fellowships each month. We eat what we want. I still chuckle thinking about what J- said.
For the record, the girls have not lost weight. I go visit Hattie during lunch, and she is eating. Neither of the girls finish everything, but they admit it is because they run out of time (socializing too much). I did have a major dud this week. Cucumber slices with turkey between them are not yummy. I apologized to them and said, "Mommy isn't always going to get things right. Now we know to scratch that meal off our list."
Here is our menu for this week. I even included some gluten!
Monday- Rotisserie Chicken and cheese quessadillas, homemade refried beans in a thermos (in slow cooker right now), apples with dip
Tuesday- Rotisserie chicken, spinach, and hummus pita sandwiches, cucumbers and ranch, and melons
Wednesday- Baked potatoes (Emogene's birthday meal), and apples and dip
Thursday- Red bean soup in the thermos (red beans and rice without the rice), smoothie with spinach added, and melons
Friday- apple sandwiches, pickled quail eggs, spinach and feta salad, seeds mix
I hope this helps someone other than me.
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